Hilary, I agree with Camilla . I presume the left hand doesn't know what the right hand is doing and the bureaucracy just keeps rolling along. Your kids, I think get the survivors benefits not primarily you. It may have been while they were not living with you they might have a case but since they have returned I think you are in the clear. I believe the rule for that is physical custody not legal. Check with social services (your favorite people) and a supervisor if necessary as Camilla suggests. There has got to be an error. Let me and all of us know what we can do for you. Charlie Camilla Flintermann wrote: > Bob has a good idea-- also I wonder if checking with a lawyer--Legal Aid, > perhaps?--would be a help. This sounds really screwed up----what do the > caseworkers, etc say? A supervisor ? If Jessi is not in your *legal > custody* she IS in your home, and there must be some way of adjusting the > red tape to that reality! Can your therapist or Jessi's run interference > for you ? This is a real "falling between the cracks in the system" > situation---and I don't know either why you weren't warned. That's > ridiculous! > Don't the kids gets survivors' benefits---and can't these come to your home > when they are living there? > Please check all the angles, and let us know how we may help ! > > >Hilary, if you will post the phone number to the county office, and the > >social security adviser you spoke to, I suspect they will receive several > >calls (at least one from Texas) inquiring if this can possibly be anything > >other than a mistake on their part, and if not, when you can expect to > >receive the funds from the county which they are collecting for you. > >bob > > for YOU from Camilla > <[log in to unmask]> > > http://www.newcountry.nu/pd/members/camilla/one.htm > > When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot, > Hang on, and swing! -- ****************************************************************************************** Charles T. Meyer, M.D. Middleton (Madison), Wisconsin [log in to unmask] ******************************************************************************************