Dear Don: Thanks so much for your wonderful input about the "infighting" that seems to be plaquing the list lately. I want to add my words of agreement to your words of wisdom, Don, and hope to remind all of the family of this list that those that are trying to be critical, overwhelmed, or overregulating are wasting a lot of valuable time that could be spent on much more positive persuits. As you said Don - the key to peace and longevity is to move in positive directions, learn how to be upbeat about now and the future, and spend energy in a productive manner. I don't want to be accused of "preaching" so I'll make my comment short, since I mainly want to reiterate just how important this list is to Judd and I - in all its diversity (sometimes I get a real kick out of visiting Parkinsaw, sometimes I just look for medical info) and I respect anyone's freedom to express anything, from facts to fiction to just feeling emotions (which we all have to do from time to time to know we are still alive). Periodically, I get "covered up" with a backlog of list, but I manage it and am so very thankful for the wonderful advent of computers - so magical with their filing abilities and deleting ease......Though I am not a computer junkie, or addicted to the list, we do love it's communications and as you say Don - the feeling of making friends you know you can't have anywhere else in such a "free" manner... So hear's listening to ya' all...... A couple of razorbacks in Texas..... the Judds.....