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The following is from the American Association of Suicidology A suicidal person might be considered suicidal if she or he: Talks about committing suicide Has trouble eating or sleeping Experiences drastic changes in behavior Withdraws from friends, and/or social activity Loses interest in hobbies, work, school, etc. Prepares for death by making out a will and final arrangements Gives away prized possessions Has attempted suicide before Has had recent severe losses Is preoccupied with death and dying Loses interest in their personal appearance Increases their use of alcohol and drugs What You Can Do To Help: Be direct. Talk openly and matter-of-factly about suicide Be willing to listen Allow expressions of feelings. accept those feelings Be nonjudgmental. Don't debate whether suicide is right or wrong, or feelings are good or bad. Don't lecture on the values of life. Get involved Become available Show interest and support Don't dare him or her to do it Don't act shocked. This will put distance between you Don't be sworn into secrecy. Seek support Offer hope that alternatives are available but do not offer glib reassurance Take action Remove means such as guns or stock piled pills Get help from specializing in crisis intervention and suicide prevention