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Ivan - Please send me a video - the money order is in the mail as we speak.
My mailing address is in the note accompanying the money order. Thank you
very much.
   On a personal note, I wish I could help you re: Mike. Mother sounds very
controlling. If I were closer i could do more. I'm so sorry.  Linda

Ivan M Suzman wrote:

> ^^^^^^  WARM GREETINGS  FROM  ^^^^^^^^^^^^  :-)
>  Ivan Suzman        49/39/36       [log in to unmask]   :-)
>  Portland, Maine    land of lighthouses         56  deg. F   :-)
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> To: [log in to unmask]
> Cc: [log in to unmask]
> Date: Fri, 13 Aug 1999 00:30:30 -0400
> Subject: My caregiver, Mike, forced to leave me -HELP please
> Message-ID: <[log in to unmask]>
>
> Dear friends,
>
> I have very bad news, and at the same time, at the end below is
> information again on the  26-min.videotape of me.
>
> I am in trouble .
>
> My precious caregiver, Mike Peare, 27,is now supposedly
>  on a bus to Virginia. I know it is against his will.  It was NOT his
> decision.  He has been under huge pressure from his mother.
>
>  He called yesterday and said that his mother"told" him to stop working
> here.
> Today, she just boasted over the phone that she took him to Greyhound ,
> "put him" on the
> 6:45 PM bus. I found out at 8:50 PM from my friend Toni,
> who is here with me tonight, who called her phone humber.
>
> I am alone again, and very worn down. I am
> afraid of being hospitalized due to NO overnight
> caregiver.
>
> Mike and his sister
> Rose had to sneak him over here on Sat, Sun,
> Mon and Tuesday, to help me.
>
> On Tuesday afternoon, after being dropped off near his mother's
>  employer's office, he vanished. I have been overwhelemed.
>
> I have been increasingly shaky  and
> worn out,  and told him this on the phone, when
> he was just once not blocked from talking to me.
>
> Mike , 27, who wrote the message that Camilla
> Flintemann posted from the CARE list, below,
>  has been my personal care attendant for three months.
> He worked 40 hours or more per week at $6.25/ hr,
> six nights per week at $9.00 bonus per night (not
> $9.00 per hour).  He stayed with me here.
>
> His mother objected to nearly everything I did.
>   I helped him open his first bank account.
>   I helped him with his math , and helped him
> withh his High SChool Diploma math test.I also
> helped him with reading, writing, reading a clock,
> and spelling. I read him the motor vehicle
> learner's permit exam. After agonizing over the
> exam, he passed.  He literally jumped for joy!
>
> I could never have asked for anyone more
> helpful.  I learned tonight that he was put on a
> Greyhound bus to Virginia to  supposedly
> "work the carnival
> circuit"
>
> . He is gone. I think the  reason is her
> fear of losing control of him.
>
> I have no caregiver for SIX nights of each week.
>
> The same  horrible$9.00 per night wage that I wrote
> about on the List last fall made it very hard for me and
> for him.  He has been almost forced to the point of exhaustion
> to take a side job this week, afternoons,unpacking boxes.
>
>   His employer , supposedly is
> the best friend of his mother. Mike phoned me TUes at 538 PM, and
> complained
> on my answering tape that he was "exhausted."  He never
> arrived home.  His mother took him away from work, and I spent
> the night without his help.
>
> I was alarmed when she told me that  she was "working him".when I
> phoned the number on my caller ID that matched the message from Mike.
> She laughed like it was oK to work him to the bone.
>
> Can anyone PLEASE try to find him.??  I am NOT
> coping with his being "exported" !!  He wanted to stay
> with me, and even to audition in the Chorus you all know I am in.
> locally, first week of September. WE have been listening
> to gospel  together at home.
>
> Please help if you can. MIKE was tryiing to stay HERE
> with me.
>
> The video ordering information follows.
>
> Ivan
> :-(
>
> To order the "Challenge of Young Parkinson's"
>  26-min videotape interviewing me on "Forum 2000", WPME-TV,  UPN Network,
> directly from me.  Ivan Suzman  9 Range Street Portland Maine, 04103
> The cost is $USA 13.00 or $USA 14.00 Priority Mail.
>
> My rest period starts on Aug 13 at 5PM Please eitherorder by then, or
> wait until
> September.
>
>  On Thu, 12 Aug 1999 18:44:05 -0400 Camilla Flintermann
> <[log in to unmask]> writes:
> >Thought you should see this, as Mike is not reading the CARE list
> >now---
> >
> >>>Hi Mike-- Glad you are back.
>
> Mike Peare had written this at 11:23 AM on TUesday morning, from my
> house.
> >>>
> >>>>Hi caregivers
> >>>>
> >>>>If there is anyone wood like to order the tape you can e-mail me .
> >>>>    I hope you will e-mail i will be here.
> >>>>
> >>>>                                   thank you all
> >>>>                                           Mike P.C.A
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>