Dear Margie---you make so much sense--we can't afford to lose you! There have been a couple of times when I, too, have felt like giving up on the list---but since I have to take care of the CARElist also, that would be fairly awkward. I agree that the recent "kefuffles", to quote Janet, have indeed taken their toll, and we are still "a little tender and bruised", to quote Margie. Let's all take a deep breath, count to (at least) 10 before hitting Reply, and hang in there together to battle the real enemy---PD. Margie wrote in part: >Sorry for going on so long, but what I'm trying to say is I'm confident that >each and everyone of us on this list has stresses and counts on this list for >support to help us through these times. And each of us, I know, is trying to >do the best he/she can to help other PWP by giving comfort, support, and >hope, and also further the research toward the cure. Not one of us means to >hurt another, yet we somehow do. SNIPPED > >I guess we should consider that maybe we, as a group, suffered more from the >recent disagreements about what was appropriate on the list than we realized, >and I think we're all still a little "tender" and "bruised," perhaps. SNIPPED > > Is it possible that it has just been a long, hot summer? > >I can say that each one who leaves will be a loss to the list, but I can't >say that I will stick around much longer myself. I can't deal with the >arguing among those I need and count on the most when it seems that no one >else - friends, family - understands what it's like to live the life we lead, >either as PWP or with PWP. I'm going to think about it for a few days and >then decide. >Margie Swindler cg Dick, 54/17 Camilla Flintermann Oxford,OH http://www.newcountry.nu/pd/members/camilla/one.htm <[log in to unmask]> *** *** *** *** *** *** *** *** We agree to differ... we resolve to love... we unite to serve. *** *** *** *** *** *** *** ***