Matthew Arnold, the great nineteenth century British social critic, poet and essayist said it better than anyone else,before or since in his 1869 essay "Culture and Anarchy. Socially desirable things, and surely a feeling of community in a group such as ours is desirable are not "a having and a getting, but a growing and a becoming." This is particularly true because the social contract binding us together is voluntary, or objective is mutual self-help and our mission is to ease h urden of having Parkinson's.