At 15:42 1999/08/29 -0400, you wrote: >Dear Janet / List Elf--- >My "perception" of this paragraph is that it is a personal attack on Michel >who was stating what was, I believe, an accurate summary of many past posts >to the list. I have to admit I cringed when I read it. I realize you may >not have intended it as an attack, but as vigorous discourse, and haven't >understood how your words may come across to others. Unfortunately, as >you have often pointed out, perceptions can vary---and that is why I AGAIN >suggest that when such disagreements arise they may better be clarified >one-to-one rather than on the whole list---this has become, after all , a >"non-pd" matter . No one is suggesting censorship or throttling your >voice, or trying to control you--- but you ASKED to have this pointed out >to you, so I am granting your request, in the hope that you may be able to >temper your tone when you realize how it can affect others. thank you, camilla janet janet paterson 52 now / 41 dx / 37 onset po box 171, almonte, ontario, canada, K0A 1A0 a new voice: <http://www.geocities.com/SoHo/Village/6263/> <mailto:[log in to unmask]>