Hi Janet , IMHO perceptions between humans is like a game between two players . One send a message that he thinks is perfect and the other thinks he receives it perfectly ....(* a transmitter and a receiver ") Now , are words a perfect medium to express moods , feelings , ideas , etc. . ? Maybe so ,but I doubt since it must have its limitations . But even taking for grant that it is a perfect medium , is the sender perfect in the use of the right words ? And more , is the receiver also in perfect state to translate this message exactly as the original intentions many times not perfectly expressed ? Perhaps this may explain why since the dawn of humanity there has been a lot of confusion and misunderstandings that keeps going on till nowadays in any community large or small . Cheers , janet paterson wrote: > i am flabbergasted yet again > > some see me as eloquent > some see me as a demagogue > > i write what i feel compelled to > after much thought and concern and selection > > i seek expression and understanding and clarity > i abhor power and control mongering > > i quit the title and 'prestige' of 'co-list-mom' > due to the perceptions of some others > > should i stop writing > due to fear of what others may see in my words > regardless of my intent? > > should i silence my voice? -- +----| Joao Paulo de Carvalho |------ + | [log in to unmask] | +--------| Salvador-Bahia-Brazil |------+