Hello Hilary, I know the message you are telling all of those do not do this , do not do that when one is young makes up for some very frustrated people. I was brought up in an Orphanage with a very strict discipline. Violence to the children was a normal thing and I wonder whether the stress that I had as a child has anything to do with Parkinson's. Have a nice day now Bern. http://members.teleweb.at/bernard.shaw/poetry.html