Hilary wrote in part--- SNIPPED > So I was devastated. > And then i remembered, when all this harassment began, someone had offered >help - someone had written me - "i am a lawyer in Northern Virginia, If i can >be of any help...."And in desperation, I emailed him last night. Did i know >him? no. But he is a member of the list family, and he opened his heart, and >gave of his special knowledge, and G-d knows as i sit here weeping tears of >gratitude over he keyboard, how thankful i am that this stranger, this friend, >responded in an instant. A couple of phone calls and he had the social >services departments buzzing. Unfortunately, the social worker had done oa >very good job of closing Jessis files, and we had to reapply - but i didnt >have to wait for an appointment, she also found .(the medicaid.sw) found a >spoonsor to pay for this month's prescription till medicaid kicks in for >jessi, and as a corollary i found out that my medicaid had been approved. >Jed, unfortunately, was not so lucky . He turned 18 in May, so has to apply >independently - he is only a part time student, but the sw assured me it >was automaitic. >Bu that the application had to go via the state attorney's office. > >But the credit goes to > HARLAN WILLIAMS. , PWP EXTRAORDINAIRE! So those were the phone calls that turned the tide and straightened out the grand mess they had made of your life! My thanks also to Harlan, though I also don't "know" him in person--it is indeed a wonderful example (like the response to Bob and Dawana's accident,and so many other situations) of what these lists (CARE included) are all about ! And we are glad for the positive changes it means for you and your kids, Hilary. Camilla Flintermann Oxford,OH http://www.newcountry.nu/pd/members/camilla/one.htm <[log in to unmask]> "In all beginnings, endings lie enfolded, implicit and invisible as roots." from: "Leaving the Garden"--CHF