Bernie-- thanks for the excellent comments---may I post them to CARE, where they are very pertinent? Camilla. >Some of my part-time semi retirement Psychology work includes Geriatric and >Long Term Disability folks, I would like to add a few points of concern to >the discussion. > >We all have a comfort or uncomfortable level, and usually decisions are >often made on the basis of that level of the primary care giver, and NOT on >the needs of the "patient". This is what I see most of the time. Often >decisions are made beyond the time that adjustment to new surroundings and >care would be optimal. This puts additional stress on all involved, >including the facility that the person is being moved to. What I am often >called into, is to evaluate in the management of the "stressed out" >resident. Behavior varies from out right physical aggression to refusal to >eat and withdrawal, including refusal to take medication. Some folks are >then transferred to Psychiatric Units, which makes matters worse, because >it adds to the stress of adjustment. Medication, and maybe restraints, are >provided to calm and protect the patient, and then moved to placement, >sometimes at a high level of care facility. Another major adjustment. At >this point the original care givers are more confused and upset, and then >in attempts to aid the "adjustment, restrict their interaction with former >care recipient. This only adds to the stress patient and family experience. > >Other listings have suggested that folks talk about these issues when there >is an opportunity to plan with rational thought and an understanding of the >many variables involved in future options. There are Social Workers who >specialize in Geriatric Care Management and are a good source of >information and assistance. The use of such professionals provide an >objective perspective, which aids in stress reduction for all, and this >helps in making the appropriate decision. > >I would like to add that individual points of view, including various self >faith concepts, are valid for the specific individual, and must be >understood in that light. When others become involved, it is just as >important to recognize their view points and beliefs and together arrive at >workable solutions. > >Hope this adds to discussion. Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter 81/70/55 Oxford, Ohio http://www.newcountry.nu/pd/members/camilla/one.htm <[log in to unmask]> "Ask me about the CARE list for Caregivers of Parkinsonians ! "