That is indeed terrible news, and my heart goes out for Barbara. We read and hear about tragedies of all kinds, and we get sad. But it hits hard when it involves someone we know or worse when it is someone we love. Participating in this list is not usually uplifting, except when we know that we have helped someone. Without you, this list might have been someone's else's, but I am sure it would not be as good. Grieve, and then come back to us, for we need you. Love Michel