Cari, -I hear what you are saying. Everyone should try to remember to change the SUBJECT line if they are not replying directly to the message the SUBJECT talked about but we all make mistakes at times. Yesterday there were many messages with a header of IMPORTANT. Most were about religion. That doesn't make it easy for someone to delete delete them before reading but as soon as I realized what the true subject was and since I didn't have time to read all of them it was easy to delete them one at a time. I know easy for me, a caregiver is not a PWP for whom deleting can be a challenge. -Hang in here for the part that is helpful. There are great people on the list. I hope you re-ask the questions you didn't get answers for. Kathy W