Don and Vivian: I read your post about being down. I am caregiver to a wonderful 60 year old, whose IQ is 138. Yet he gets down - bad - sometimes. I tell him he has earned the right to get down occasionally. Sometimes I think the season may be the reason, and since we only found out about this insideous disese a short time ago, we'll have to find out in the next seasons. I tell him he also has the right to feel angry at times, and to feel hurt. I guess what I'm trying to say to you is, "go with the flow". Allow yourself to just be. This too, shall pass. Best wishes to all of you for a great holiday season, and a better 2000. Jo Ann from Houston.