At 11:34 AM 12/19/1999 -0800, Kathy Whitman wrote: >> I have only talked to him once. Dick >> > usually goes to his doctors by himself. He goes when he is suppose to >> > and is not afraid to call and ask questions and he will do what the >> > doctors tell him, (most of the time) > >Will your husband accept you going with him? My husband wasn't eager for me >to gobut I said that if I were going to see a neurologist I would want him >along for support. He >accepted that and now likes me to go to all appointments as he has a hearing >problem. >He often only takes in part of what the doctor says and this way we know what >is going on. >And as someone else says the neuro often asks the care giver their opinion as >they see things the patient doesn't. > >Kaathy W cg jim > > > I always have gone to the dr.s with Bob. we just do things together I guess..he goes with me and I go with him :). When Bob was getting all those xrays and such for this and that they wanted me to wait in the waiting rooom...I said no..I will come with him. I had to wait outside the xray room but at least I was able to help Bob with taking off his shirt and keeping him steady and all...guess I am over protective. Bob has lost his sense of balance big time with pd. I help him putting his shoes on sometimes if he is too tired to reach way down there...:)...help him get dressed... I figured out that I am basically 2 people in one...lol...gotta laugh to keep the sanity :) with his diabetes he doesn't think of eating when he is busy doing stuff that he is normally toooo tired to do...so I have to..that is the way it is. yes....go to the dr with your hubby....that is a good way to ask questions and get answers :) hugs, Coleen CG to Bob :)