Bob, thank you for your words of advice and support. They do help. Your right Dick was just diagnosed about a year ago, but the battle started at least two or three years before that. His heart doctor was the first to reccommened a neurologist but denial is a powerful thing. We are learning to make adjustments every day . We just take it one day at a time. That is all any of us can do. I wish you and your wife good luck and happiness. SuecgDick