Nancy & Bev, Thank you for your comments. Your both right. I have just realized by reading Nancy's message that she is right I should go and I must admit sometimes I use the factthatDick is reluctant to have me there as an excuse not to go. That is wrong. It is my responsibilty to be there even if it is just for moral support.I will be more insistent in the future and make it a point to go even if I just sit in the waiting room. SuecgDick